The nuances of raising a child-phlegmatic

Phlegmatic calm, judicious, circumspect. It is passive, but has permanent interests and shows perseverance in achieving goals. It is peaceful and quiet "snail", who calmly responds to any events and rarely worried.

On the one hand, it's just Golden child: prefer a quiet game, never turns the house upside down, careful and restrained. He may long and well to do men of acorns, without disturbing the adults.

But parents phlegmatic difficult to get used to its slowness and extremely thoroughness. They often lose patience because of the leisurely manner of the baby to dress, wash and move. No less angry adults inertia of the child's unwillingness to any change. The phlegmatic is difficult even to give a dirty sweater in the wash and put on a new one.

However, adjusting the child, calling him "sleepy fly," change nothing will. Of course, you should not perform for a kid his duties. Need to adapt to the pace of the phlegmatic. For example, for a training camp in the school allocate as much time as you want baby, even if you have to get up an hour earlier.

It is important to educate your child initiative and curiosity. For this purpose it is necessary to make his life full and interesting, fill it with experiences and events. In the family it is useful to organize games of skill and speed: tag, nakalyvanie rings, badminton, battle of snowballs.

These and other studies will help to "tease" of the child. But in any case you cannot make a phlegmatic to do what he did not like, even if the adult lesson seems very exciting.

Phlegmatic difficult to meet people, do not know how to cooperate. You need to teach your child to understand other people's feelings and empathize with them. Try to discuss with him the motives of his relatives and acquaintances, to predict and analyze others ' emotions. It is important not to impose my views, and to encourage a dialogue. And of course, the parents must be an example of a generous attitude toward others.

Psychologists warn that described temperaments does not exist in pure form! In every person there are features of all four. Depending on their severity can talk about the dominant type of human temperament.

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